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If You're Pregnant
    Profiles of Families Waiting to Adopt

Below you will find the Dear Birth Mother/Birth Parent Letters from the Friends in Adoption pool of carefully screened families that are hoping to adopt. In them, the waiting families describe their home, their relationship, their families, work and what is important to them. Through Friends in Adoption's open and compassionate services, you get to choose and meet the waiting adoptive families of your choice, and you get to choose the level of openness you prefer. You are welcome and encouraged to contact any of the listed familes below. Alternatively, you can contact Friends in Adoption anytime at 1-800-844-3630.



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Meg & Kathleen
We know that this is a very difficult time for you and the decisions and plans that you are making for your child’s future are out of love for your child. We want you to know that, if we become a part of your plan, the door to our hearts and our lives is wide open for your child.


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Jason & Cheryl
Hi! We're Jason and Cheryl. We admire the tremendous strength and courage it must take to consider an adoption plan for your child. We are honored to be able to share a bit of our life with you.



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Greg & Chad
We are honored that you have chosen to take the time to learn about us, and we thank you for this opportunity to share a little bit about ourselves with you.


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Ross, J. & Connor
Thank you for considering us! We are thrilled to continue growing our family through open adoption. We believe that who we are as parents has much to do with our families and how we were brought up, so we hope that you enjoy learning about us in this brochure!



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Retha & Jen
We appreciate the difficult decision you are making and we admire your courage to consider adoption. We hope reading about us will give you a sense of who we are, how we live and why we want to become parents.


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Steve, Lori & Jared
Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us. We realize that out of love you want what is best for your baby. Please feel certain that we will raise your baby with love and will help him or her reach their fullest potential in life. We are honored to be able to share a bit of our life with you and hope these words and photos will



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Conio, Cliff & Grace
A few short years ago, our lives were changed forever when a bright, beautiful young woman made the loving and courageous choice for us to adopt her baby girl. Our dream came true! And now we are dreaming again of our family growing through the miracle of adoption.


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Ann Marie, Brian & Meredith
We are Ann Marie and Brian and we hope this profile helps you get to know a little about us and our daughter, Meredith. Both of us truly respect the depth of love and courage you show by considering adoption for your baby. Please know that our hearts are open to you just as our hearts and arms will be open to your child.



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Gini, Sue & Alexandra
The opportunity of bringing another child into our lives is our greatest dream, but we don’t take it lightly. Adoption is a great responsibility, an amazing journey and the promise of a loving lifetime with our new child. We admire and respect your courage for considering an adoption plan. We look forward to the fulfillment of our dream; finding, adopting and welcoming that special child into our family. Your baby will be loved more than words can express. We encourage you to look at our profile and visit our website, once you begin to know who we are, we believe you will choose us.


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Debbie & Tommy
Hi, we're Debbie and Tommy and we feel privileged that you are taking some time to read our letter! We recognize that you are considering making an adoption plan for your baby, and realize that your decision is being made out of pure love for your child. We want you to know that our decision to adopt is also being made with great love.



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Paul, Claudine & Daniel
We would like to thank you for taking the time to read about us. We are grateful for this opportunity to share a little about ourselves, our families, and the loving home we would be honored to provide for your child. We realize that you are faced with a difficult and important decision and that out of love, you want the best for your baby. We hope that after reading our story, you will know how much love we have to offer your child.


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Peter & Keith
We realize considering an adoption plan for you and your baby is a very difficult decision and we want you to know we have the utmost respect for you whatever you decide. We hope this profile gives you a sense of who we both are. We look forward to working with you if an adoption plan is your decision.



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Lisa & Robyn
Laughter and adventure fill our lives and we can’t wait to share them with a child. Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little bit about us. We can only imagine the strength, courage and selflessness it must take for you to consider this plan for your baby. You have our word that should you choose us, we will always give your child our deepest love and encouragement and promise to always make him or her feel safe and sound.


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Chris & Dan
Please know that becoming parents is a role that we will take very seriously and we will be forever grateful to you for the opportunity to provide your child with a loving and supportive home.



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Lauri, Kris & Maryn
It's difficult to know just what to say to you. At this point, we know only that you are at a difficult point in your life, struggling with perhaps the most critical decision you'll ever have to make. Should you decide on an adoption plan, we know that finding the right home for your child will be of great importance to you. We want you to know that providing a good home is just as important to us.


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Tom & Cheryl
We commend you for the courageous choice you are making for your child. We truly hope that you have all the love and support you need to get through this time in your life. We know that you want what is best for him or her, and thank you for taking the time to consider us as potential parents.



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Fern & Marc
We promise to give your child a loving,happy home which we have been fortunate to have had ourselves.We hope these few pages help demonstrate how devoted we are to building our family through adoption. We will guide your child to be honest, compassionate, hard-working, and thoughtful, but most importantly have an unequalled zeal and yearning for learning. Very few things in life are guaranteed, but your child’s well-being is one of them.


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Steven & Leslie
With all the love in our hearts we’d like to thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We respect your strength and courage as you consider this difficult decision. We want you to know that we will provide every opportunity for your child. We hope that as you read on you will learn more about us, our families and our dreams of filling our home with the love and laughter of a child.



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Howie & Allan
We admire the incredible amount of courage and love you have for your baby. We thank you for reading our profile and hope that it will help you to learn more about us. We want you to know that if you decide to place your child with us, your child will find a home full of love with an enormous amount of warmth and a supportive family.


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Lisa
Words cannot express how truly honored I feel to be able to share my story with you. Your courage and respect for your child are to be admired. I am committed to providing a child a home filled with warm hugs, loads of laughter and unconditional love.



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Carrie, Kathleen & Tim
We are grateful for this chance to share a little of our lives with you. We know that you are facing some big decisions about what is best for you and your baby. We believe that adoption is about finding the best place for everyone involved.


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Edwin & Mike
Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little about us and our dream to raise a family together. We understand this is an emotional time for you and appreciate your courage and willingness to consider adoption. We would be grateful and honored to welcome a child into our lives.



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Sharon, Jon & Liana
We admire your courage in researching all of your options. We also thank you for taking the time getting to know our happy family. We look forward to getting to know you as well.


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Chris & Bill
Thank you for taking the time to get to know us and our story. We believe in our hearts that while life sometimes brings people together in unexpected ways, they are always brought together for a reason. As you consider whether an adoption plan is best for you, please know that we are deeply committed to the concept of compassionate and open adoption. We hope that as you explore our family album, you will get to know more about us, our life together and our dream of creating a family through adoption.



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Tony & Deborah
We would like to start by saying that we have great respect for you and the unselfish love you have for your child as you consider an adoption plan. Thank you for allowing us to share our story with you. We hope it helps you with your decision as you get to know us as a loving and caring family.


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Abra & Aldo
We have a strong and loving relationship. We have been together since Aldo’s daughter, Alyson, was a toddler (she is now in her senior year of high school). The three of us enjoy spending time together, whether traveling or playing games at home, and we would love to add a child to our family.



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Lori & Mike
We are Lori and Mike and we appreciate your taking a few minutes to learn about us. We hope that through these pages, we can show you how deeply committed we are to building a family through adoption. Lori, was adopted at birth, and feels particularly blessed with the understanding to know about unconditional love.


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Jack & Lorraine
First we’d like to say we have tremendous respect for your strength and love in trying to make a decision that is right for both your child and yourself. We know you face many choices.We can’t know everything you are feeling right now but we’re pretty sure you want to have confidence in whoever you choose. We hope you will find, as you read our story that we are deserving of your trust. Thanks for taking the time to get to know us.



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Michelle & Andy
Thanks for taking a few minutes to preview our family life. Weve known each other since 2000 and were married in 2003. We have made a 3 bedroom ranch in upstate New York our home. Blue, our sweet and gentle lab-mix, is the perfect family pet. The one thing missing in our lives is a child or two or three, with whom we may share all of the many great joys of family life. Weve got plenty to share: laughs, family, friends, and especially love.


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Danny & Fran
Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We have gone over this letter to you so many times, trying to find the right words. We wanted it to be from the heart, because we are in awe of your strength and bravery as you consider all the options for your baby.



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Scott, Arna & Cody
We understand how much you love your child adn that adoption is a difficult decision for you. We want you to know how much we admire you. We can understand these emotions as we were blessed by adoption in 2003 when we adopted Cody. We want you to know we have so much to offer your baby. We have so much love waiting but whatever your choice we wish you and your baby the best of everything.


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Lynne & Dave
We would like to start by saying hello and expressing our admiration and thanks for your courage while you are going through this difficult time and considering placing your child for adoption. This is a very important time in all of our lives, and we want to approach it together with strength, understanding, and support.



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Mike & Penelope
Thank you for spending some time with us! We know you are facing some difficult decisions right now, and we truly admire your strength and determination as you plan for your child’s future. Thank you for including us in your thoughts, and welcome to this short profile of our home and our lives together…


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Tim, Matt & Jamie
At this difficult time in your life we want you to know that we admire your courage to consider an adoption plan for your baby. By reading a little about our family we hope that you will see the love in our hearts and our joy of being parents. We look forward to sharing our lives with a new baby.



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Rick & Laurie
Thank you for taking a moment to find out who we are. We have the greatest respect for the care you are taking in figuring out what is best for your baby. We have so much love to share and are so excited about becoming parents. Our dream is to provide a safe, happy home for a child. We hope you will consider us as loving adoptive parents.


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Graham & Joe
We are ready to raise a child to be safe, happy, healthy and secure in our home. A child in our home would be the center of attention and adored by all our supportive family and many friends; they would never forget where they came from and who they are. They will be loved and cherished every day and given every opportunity to be their best.



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Jody, Bill & Billy
We understand that this must be a very difficult decision for you to make and we respect your courage and commitment to provide your child with a secure future even if that means choosing someone else to parent your child. We will be happy to do everything we can to help you through this emotional time and we promise you that your child will grow up knowing how strong and loving you were in choosing our family.


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Sharon & Amy
Thank you for taking the time to consider our family. We hope we can show you who we are through these words and photos and can share our great joy in the prospect of becoming parents to your baby. We’d also like to get to know more about you and your special talents, skills, and interests so that we can look for these characteristics and nurture them in your child. We respect your strength and courage in this process.



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Russell & Rob
We are happy that you have taken the time to review our profile as you begin to consider the future of your unborn child. As a gay couple, we have spent a lot of time exploring the means by which we would seek to bring a child into our family. We believe that your journey as a woman considering an adoption plan and our journey as an adoptive couple share a common bond - shared hopes and dreams for a child that has yet to be born but that already has touched all of our hearts in ways too numerous to count and, at times, too difficult to fully comprehend.


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Joseph & Joe
Thank you for taking the time to learn about us, it is with great respect that we write to you. We are humbled by the weight of your decision and pray that you find comfort and peace in the choices ahead, whatever your decision may be. We hope that by reading about us, you get a glimpse of who we are, our life together and the love we have to share.



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Joanne & Rene
Although this glance into our lives is brief, we want you to feel confident knowing that if you choose us as parents for your baby, he or she will have a lifetime of love, security, happiness and (lots of) laughter. We can only imagine how difficult this decision is for you and want you to know how much we admire your strength and courage. Please accept our heartfelt gratitude and thanks during your decision making process.


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Ed, Susan & Ashley
We would like to thank you for taking time to read our profile and begin to get to know our family.We hope that we can show you, through our profile, how much love we have to offer your child. We can only imagine how difficult a decision this must be for you but be assured that we would welcome your child into our family with a lot of love and happiness.



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Chip & Ben
Thanks for reading our profile. We want you to know how we want to grow our family and the things that are really important to us: family, friends and, of course, lots and lots of fun. We want to offer a child a safe and secure future and give him or her the tools needed to be happy and successful.


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Robin & Ron
We are so honored and excited that our life journey has led us to adoption and to you. Please know that we believe that loving a child requires no biological connection and that being a parent is about living a life that honors the child. We know that this decision takes tremendous courage and strength to even consider. It requires a level of maturity and selflessness that most cannot bring from within. It is people like you that we most respect in this world.



FIA Clients Only - Instructions for getting your profile on www.friendsinadoption.org:

All clients should call 1-802-434-6336 or e-mail info@iLUCID.net before sending any profiles.

Please Note: We will try to have profile materials received by the 15th of each month posted to the website by the end of that month. Information and materials received after the 15th might have to wait until the following cycle. We wish to ensure that we get the information correct the first time to prevent delays of your profile.

To get your profile on FIA's site please mail (yes snail mail is ideal for this - often times there are issues when emailing large files!):

  • A Hard Copy of your profile
  • A CD or PC Zip Disk with .jpg and/or .tif files of your photos (please limit to 10-20 of your favorites) and a Microsoft Word or plain text (.txt) file of the text that goes with your profile.
  • Optional: If you include an Adobe Acrobat file in .pdf file format of your profile we'll put a link to it from your web profile so viewers can print it out nicely (please note we will not be able to edit your .pdf file for you and will be putting it up as is!) However, if you would like us to create your .pdf file for you please contact iLUCID.net for complete instructions. Please note: a separate fee will apply for this service.
  • Check for $150 made out to: iLUCID, LLC (will not be deposited until your profile is live).

Not sure what all that means? You are not alone! Give us a call and we'll help you figure it out.

TIP: A good place to start is to contact the person who did your print profile and let them know what we need - mostly likely they already have it.

Mail To:
iLUCID.net
210 Texas Hill Rd
Huntington, VT 05462

ATTN: FIA Profiles.

Please be sure that you send quality digital images. We can make minor image quality adjustments only.

Please do not send MAC disks. If you would like your photo's or disks returned, be sure to include a self-addressed stamped envelope!

Please do not hesitate to call (1-802-434-6336) or e-mail us with any questions on how to get your profile listed once you are an FIA client.

Our website: www.iLUCID.net

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44 South Street
P.O. Box 1228
Middletown Springs, VT 05757-1228


FIA is a non-profit licensed open adoption agency with services that help you place a baby for adoption

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