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Deb, Judy & Chris



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Thank you for considering us as adoptive parents. We adopted our daughter, Judy Virginia, through an open adoption and have had such a positive experience that we are ready to do it again! We both come from large loving families and cherish the memories of growing up with brothers and sisters. We want Judy and any additional children who become a part of our family to share that same type of joy. We have a lot of love to give and are confident that we can provide a great home and family life for your child.

about chris

Chris comes from a very close family and is one of five kids. Her parents were very loving and supportive and always stressed the importance of spending time together as a family. As a result, Chris and her sister, Jeanne, and brothers Bill (Chris’ twin), Tom and Jim have always been inseparable. They genuinely enjoy being together and are the best of friends.

As kids, family time often included games of touch football,wiffle ball, or playing Marco Polo in the pool. As adults, these games continue – but with lots of little ones added to the teams! As the family continues to grow, their love, laughter and shared good times keep multiplying. They make every occasion together a special one – and typically have a funny story to tell afterwards.

Chris is a very loving and genuine person whose bright spirit shines through in her eyes. Her smile warms everyone’s heart and she is a friend to all. Chris is a wonderful mother whose love and devotion to Judy can be seen in everything she does from daily wagon rides to bedtime stories. Chris and Judy share a special bond born of pure love; a love that Chris will undoubtedly shower on all of our children.

Chris and Judy snow-tubing

Chis and Judy heading out for a morning run

Chris's brothers & sister at Judy's christening

Chris with six of her nieces and nephews

about deb

Deb is also from a close-knit family and is one of three children. Deb and her sister, Donna, and brother, Lenny, have enjoyed many happy times and memories. Over the years they have created family traditions that they all hold dear to their hearts, including family camping/rafting trips, weekend trips to their second home in the Poconos, and backyard BBQ’s. Holidays and birthdays were always celebrated in grand style, with lots of food and fun. All of these practices continue today, and as the family expands so does the merriment!

Deb is also an extremely genuine and compassionate person as well as a gentle and loving mother. She lets Judy know that she is the center of our universe and she will undoubtedly shower any additional children who are welcomed into our family with the same kind of love and tenderness.

Deb's sister & brother at Judy's christening

Deb and niece Chelsea hiking

Deb and Judy enjoying story time

Deb and our "little lambie" enjoying a treat

about judy virginia

Judy Virginia was adopted at birth in an open adoption. We have an excellent relationship with her birth mother, to whom we are so incredibly grateful. We see her birth mom a couple of times a year and send cards and pictures frequently. We view her as part of our extended family and look forward to her continuing to be an important part of our lives.

Judy loves being with other children. She is very social and an excellent sharer! She is extremely loving and has a generous heart, and we know that she will make a wonderful big sister.

In her playhouse

At home with a few toys

Enthusiastically enjoying the swings

Judy is absolutely adorable, and we feel so blessed to have her. She was named in honor of both of our moms, who sadly passed away before she was born. They were wonderful mothers and loving grandmothers, and we feel honored to have the opportunity to pass on many of their loving practices and traditions.

Creating a masterpiece

Judy Virginia was born on June 16, 2007. She is a bright energetic child with a wonderful smile and great personality. We are thrilled with her!

Enjoying an episode of Dora with cousin Faelan

Judy loves story time, going for walks and wagon rides, playing in the pool, dancing and watching Dora the Explorer.

Judy enjoying our backyard

Our Home

our values & home

We were both raised with a strong sense of family and togetherness and we appreciate how important a good home life is. Our families have always been a source of strength for us and continue to provide us with love and support. Through our families we learned the importance of faith and prayer, the rewards of unconditional love, the importance of integrity, and the warmth of compassion. These are a few of the core values that we wish to teach our children.

We live on Long Island, in Chris’ childhood home with her father, Bill. He is a wonderful grandfather who loves spending time with his 10 grandchildren. He often accompanies the kids to after-school activities (i.e. soccer, gymnastics, swimming lessons, etc.) and loves to laugh and play games with them. Since we live with him, he has an especially close bond with Judy. They adore each other, and we know that he can’t wait to have another grandchild in the house to dote on!

Our neighborhood is quiet and family-oriented, with many children nearby. The school system is excellent, and there are many great parks and beaches within a very short distance. Our home is spacious with plenty of room for children to run, play and grow. We have several extra bedrooms that can easily be converted into a nursery, and a large playroom already filled with lots of baby toys! Our home is already baby-proofed, with lots of safety gates throughout. We have a large backyard with beautiful gardens, a fenced-in pool, and ample space for outdoor toys. Our front yard is also very big, and often the site of family soccer and wiffle ball games.

Papa and Judy

Grandpa and Judy

Celebrating the New Year

Bundled up in the car seat

Jim and girlfriend Jen

our work & interests

We are both licensed massage therapists and run our own massage therapy practice on Long Island. We work with individuals and companies to provide stress/pain relief and enhance well-being. Our company is lovingly dedicated to the memory of Chris’s brother, Jim, who died in the World Trade Center attack on September 11th. It is our hope that through our work we are able to bring the peace, comfort and joy that Jim brought to so many people during his lifetime.

In addition, Deb is currently going to nursing school to become an R.N. Because we are self-employed, we have a lot of flexibility in our work hours. We are able to coordinate our work/school schedule so that one of us is always home to care for our child. We are both very family-oriented, and love spending time with our extended families. Together, we have 13 nieces and nephews so our children will have many cousins to play with! In addition, both of our fathers are great with kids and love to babysit!

Lots of cousins!

More cousins...

...and cousins again!

With Papa and Grandpa

Carriage ride in Central Park

Chris after finishing NYC Marathon

Judy on her first camping trip...

...with her cousins

Deb snowmobiling

We want you to know that if you choose us as adoptive parents for your child, he/she will be placed into a very loving home and fully welcomed into our extended families. We promise to provide a very nurturing and supportive environment, where he/she can fully develop his/her abilities and pursue whatever interests he/she may have. We are also committed to honoring you and telling our child about your brave and loving decision. We want to thank you for taking the time to read our profile. We hope to hear from you and would be happy to answer any questions you might have. We also welcome the opportunity to get to know you.

Deb, Judy & Chris

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